Man, sometimes it would be REALLY
nice to have things always go according to plan, hey? This week, I
really learned about what it is to trust in our Heavenly Father with ALL
we got, even though we might not know the reasons WHY things are
happening.
With that said, this week was definitely a
tougher one. There wasn't straight up any one reason WHY things were so
difficult, but having gone from teaching about 4 lessons a day to really
working to find one definitely made it a struggle. We had two sorta big
or difficult things happen to us this week, and man, if I hadn't have
been with Elder Stone, it definitely woulda been tough to go through as
well as we did. Earlier this week, in talking with Louisa, we taught her
about the Law of Chastity, and what that would mean for her life, and
as we closed the lesson, we asked her, 'So, with this in mind, what are
you going to need to change?', to which she responded, 'Well, I need to
split up with my man, and either he needs to leave, or I do'. Elder
Stone and I were shocked at the direct faith she had to have an answer
like that, because I'm pretty sure at that point, most people would say
'that's way too hard, I can't do that!', but she saw the one way that
she really needs to go.
However, this isn't exactly going to be easy for
her. The next night, she showed up at the church telling us she needed
our help, and after talking to her for a bit, we were able to help calm
her down and give her the support she needs, and as she left, she went
straight up to the guy she lives with, and made the decision to seperate
from him. The only existing problem is, however, that she would now
need to find a new place to live. At the current moment, she is still
living in the same house as him, but trying to find some kind of way to
get out. On our part, there really isn't anything WE can do, so our only
response is to turn to our Heavenly Father with this. We've just gotta
have this overwhelming trust to know that he's gunna find a way to sort
this all out, so that she can be baptized on the 25th of April.
Sometimes we don't know why we've gotta work through certain things, but
in the end, it's all got a reason.
We also had an experience
with our investigator, Nelson, this week, as well which contributed to
this similar theme. We taught him a couple times this week and it was
going super super well, but on Saturday night, we sorta fell into a
problem with him. We were sitting in the church with him trying to help
him with this problem he had arise all of a sudden, and it was one of
the most tense moments I've been in so far, if not the most. It
certainly was a moment where all of us were having our faith tried, and I
really hope Nelson left with a new understanding of what faith really
is, but it may have gone the absolute other way. Again, sometimes, these
trails we face, we have no clue WHY we get them, but we've gotta trust
our Father that this really is for our good and our benefit, and really,
I know that it is.
So, let's not try and sounds
depressing anymore, hey? Sorry if my rants sound like that, I really try
not to. We found a lot of joy through these experiences. On Sunday, we
had 3 investigators show up to church, Louisa being one, and we had
Milcialita AND Chano show up, which was an incredible blessing. We sang
'Que Firme Alicerce' (How Firm a Foundation) for our closing hymn during
sacrament meeting, and as I looked up from playing my dinky-little
arrangement of it, Milcialita was absolutely beaming from where she was.
That right there made all the little crappy things we went through not
even matter, because heck, it was just so awesome.
Also,
this week, we had President and Sister Mathews come by, which was pretty
darn awesome. They came and sat in on our District Meeting, and then
gave us trainings after, saying that, since we can't make it to Zone
Meeting every month, they figured they could give us a little Zone
Meeting just with them. After, they came by to inspect each of our
houses, and let me tell ya, when you live without a mom, you forget very
quickly what moms live like. As 18 and 20 year old kids, our level of
cleanliness certainly wasn't the level of cleanliness held by Sister
Mathews, even though we thought we'd worked our butts off to make the
house all pretty and such. It sufficieth me to say that, we did not pass
the inspection, though 'we did not fail', as Elder Stone says. We just
stayed in that happy middle ground that exists with a thin film of dust
on more surfaces than not :)
Anyways, these have been my insights from the past week, hope y'all enjoyed!
Love y'all, and GO FLAMES GO!!!
Elder Massey
While I'm gone on my mission for two years, I will update all of you on my many adventures through this blog! My name is Elder Sean Massey, I'm from Calgary Alberta Canada, and I will be serving in the Cape Verde Praia mission from December 2014 to December 2016. You can email me at sean.massey@myldsmail.net
Tuesday, 14 April 2015
Wednesday, 8 April 2015
Oxford Comma
View from the beach!
The hardships of missionary life.....lobster for dinner.... again!!! haha
To paraphrase Vampire Weekend lead-singer Ezra Koenig,
'Who really cares about an oxford comma?'
Now,
from my basic understanding of the term 'Oxford Comma', it is a type of
comma used in a sentence where it really isn't a necessary punctuation
in a given sentence, therefore, becomes something that shouldn't be
something to worry about. I may be horribly wrong here, but again, I'm
on an island in the Atlantic, I can't promise that I'm up to the times
on everything. 'Who really cares about an oxford comma?'
Tuesday, 31 March 2015
Us Against the World
*No new pictures this week....sorry!
In the 2011 Glastonbury headlining slot, Chris Martin
introduced this song for the first time, describing it something along
the lines of, 'Just imagine you're on a camping trip, and you're out
there all alone, and it starts to rain, and there's nothing you can do
about it, and you're miserable, and it's just like you're out there
against the world'
Sometimes, in the missionary life,
you're feeling pretty well like that. It seems like you've got a heck
ton of stuff that needs to be fixed, or people that need to do
something, but there really is nothing you can do. As an individual,
your personal ability only extends so far to do the tasks that are set
before you, and sometimes, you feel like it's really like it's you
against the world. Here on Maio, over the 8 weeks I've been here, it's
definitely seemed some days like it's us against the world, because the
branch can be struggling, our investigators can fail to fulfill
commitments, and sometimes, it can be straight up impossible to find
people due to the fact that just about everyone in the town will all be
at a given place when an event happens. This is where our own ability
stops, and where we need to turn somewhere else. Our district leader,
Elder Ernst, gave a training during our district meeting this week based
on hope, and really what that can do for us in our lives, and for our
work here in Maio. When it's just us against the world, we've gotta turn
to our Heavenly Father and put our hope in him, and in turn, put our
faith in him. This hope, first, is what gives our faith the power it
needs to act. And what is it that this faith does for us? Well,
according to Captain Moroni, in Alma chapter 44, we learn that 'God will
support us, and keep, and preserve us, so long as we are faithful unto
him, and unto faith... and never will the Lord suffer that we shall be
destroyed'. So, maybe I just rant sometimes, and this makes no sense
whatsoever, but I learned that, as we really have the hope that our
Heavenly Father will help us, we won't be just 'us against the world',
and that we will have the faith that will hold us up FOREVER.
With
that being said, this week was jsut about one of our most successful
weeks in terms of numbers here, being that we taught OVER 20 lessons,
and had 2 investigators show up at church. One of these investigators,
Louisa, happens to be one of the many blessings our Heavenly Father gave
us as we've put our hope in him. A few weeks back, Elder Stone and I
were taking one of our daily breaks at our local favorite (and by
favorite I mean cheap) store, and we were drinking some pop, and this
lady came up to us and asked us for like 100 escudoes (the local currency) or something, and
we were like 'well, sorry, we don't have any money!', and she looked at
us like we were stupid, and asked us what our names were, told us where
she lived, and stumbled off. She was definitely drunk, and I just
thought it was a funny experience. Well, this week, Elder Stone thought
it a good idea to contact her at her house, so we went by, and
surprisingly, she made a day with us to come by. We went back the next
day and taught her, and let me tell ya, I don't think she spoke a word
of Portuguese. She understands Portuguese perfectly, but speaks a VERY
thick Creole, so I understood very close to nothing what she said. We
taught a solid, simple lesson with her, and she said she would read the
Book of Mormon with her kids, since she's forgotten to read. After that
day, we were able to visit her two other times, taking her on a tour of
our church one day, and on Sunday, she was just about the first person
to show up, dressed in her Sunday-best, WITH all 3 of her kids (who are
VERY well behaved, BONUS!). It was so darn cool to see, especially since
we didn't go by her house prior to church that morning. She really
liked church, and I think she really likes us. Finding her and teaching
her was definitely a blessing from Heavenly Father.
As
for Chano and Milcialita (that's actually how you spell her name, my
bad for messing it up), this week was very up and down with them, but
with them, we're just moving step by step. We were able to find time to
visit with them just about every day, and they graciously fed us a
variety of seafood on these various visits, and they've committed to
living the Word of Wisdom, but we're still working with them on getting
married to live the Law of Chastity. For them, it's just gunna be a
thing we're going to have to take slow, every day. They truly are
incredible people, and are so much fun to be around. They both firmly
believe these things are true, and Milcialita LOVES reading the Book of
Mormon. Right now, we've just gotta keep working on making these beliefs
become actions. They weren't at church this past Sunday, which Elder
Stone and I were bummed about, but we found out later that Milcialita
gets killer migraines (just like I used to get), and had to go to the
local hospital to get a shot to help with the pain, so, when someone is
in a state like that, I'm not too miffed about them not making it to
church. One night, after a visit with them that ran over what we wanted,
we got out the door at like 9:28 and had to BOOK it home so that no
harm would befall on us due to the fact of being out after 9:30. I found
in that moment that my sprinting in missionary attire needs some work,
and that my knees aren't in the shape they were last Spring during
track season.
So, with that, I guess we're
just gunna keep looking forward. We freakin' WORKED this pst week, and
it'll be a task to work what we did this week, but with Heavenly Father
helpin' us out, it's never just us against the world, or in our case,
the small population of Maio.
I hope that you've all had rad weeks, thanks for ya love.
Love y'all, stay gucci chill and young money.
Elder Massey
Wednesday, 25 March 2015
Roll Away Your Stone
Maio elders - hard at work!
Maio elders - exploring the island - at the top.....
....and from the bottom!
Cape Verde - Land of Light
'Roll away your stone, I'll roll away mine... together we can see what we will find'
Maio elders - exploring the island - at the top.....
....and from the bottom!
Cape Verde - Land of Light
I've learned a little bit about taking steps with faith, both in the lives of our investigators, and in my own life.
As
for our investigators, at least our main ones, our focus was really on
getting them to understand the importance of them taking steps with
faith in their own lives, that our job as missionaries isn't to make
them do things, but to help them gain a desire to do things for
themselves. I guess, in this way, we're asking for our investigators to
become vulnerable in their relationships with us and with God, and to
make the next step in their lives. Specifically, this week, that meant
getting our investigators to have a real desire to actually go to
church. Earlier this week, we were teaching Chano and Milsielita, more
or less on the importance of keeping commandments and what that meant in
their lives, when I think this desire really hit Milsielita. She was
just thinking and thinking, and as I was trying to figure out how to ask
them the question I wanted to get out, she more or less answered me
mid-sentence, saying she knew she needed to go to church that Sunday,
and even made this weird pinky promise thing with Elder Stone, which he
was rather hesitant to accept. I was a really cool and also funny
experience, and sure enough, on Sunday, Milsielita arrived! She's been
our first investigator to show up to church since I've gotten here, so
that was an incredible feeling to have. Chano would have come too, but
he had a friend break down on the side of the road that morning, and had
to go help him. Thankfully, since Milsielita went to church and loved
it so much, Chano is now definitely dedicated to coming this next
Sunday, if only just to see me play the piano and Elder Stone lead the
music. Because of the Spirit Milsielita felt at church, she's able to
help Chano develop that same firm desire to come to church with us too.
In 'rolling away our stone' and showing our Heavenly Father we're
willing to work with him, he truly is able to work wonders.
As
for Nelson, this week, we had less of an opportunity to actually meet
with him, as there was a LOT going on here in Vilha for whatever reason,
and he was gone a lot. He was originally marked to be baptized on the
21st, last Saturday, but since he's yet to come to church, that wasn't a
possibility. He truly does have a testimony that these things are true,
but he's just gotta show Heavenly Father that he's willing to work for
it. We kinda sat down with him just to see what's been holding him back
from coming to church, and helped him understand what he really needs to
do. He's such an incredibly humble guy, and it honestly is amazing to
see how faithful he is, and how prepared by our Father in Heaven he has
been. He's now just gotta make that next step, and roll away his stone
to our Heavenly Father.
For me, I've been
working more on really trusting in my Heavenly Father as I do his work.
Sometimes, it's very easy to get into a more or less rut in things, to
just do the work, to just contact people on the street for a number,
etc., but I've been trying to work more with my Heavenly Father to use
his help to find those who are ready to accept our message. One way
Elder Stone and I have been doing this, is by thinking that every contact
we make will be the next person baptized here in Maio. Sometimes, this
can be tough, because you'll get the occasional Catholic who just shakes
his head at ya, or someone who wants to talk in English and turns out
to just be really confused, but our Heavenly Father does put people in
our way. Some of the coolest people we've taught have been people who
have contacted us, and not us contacting them. So, with that said, I'm
gunna roll away my stone to my Heavenly Father even more.
Some
funny stuff did happen this week, a certain experience stands out among
others. One day, we were out searching for a guy named Jo, saying it
like jjj-o, kinda like a soft 'j', if ya get my feel. We went ALL over
the place trying to find where he lived, asking people if they knew him,
etc., and we eventually decided to go to Chano at work, because we knew
he was buddies with the guy. Chano told us EXACTLY where to go, and as
we got there, we asked at the door if 'jjjj-o' was there. The lady there
told us jjj-o didn't live there, which made us really confused, so we
asked 'well, does Joe live here?' to which she responded, 'oh, yeah,
Joe's my brother, let me go check'. Elder Stone and I just about died
laughing after. It's incredible how funny Cape Verdeans can be
sometimes.
Also, this week, I gave a few new
things a try. One night at Chano and Milsielita's, we were forced to eat
their food, which happened to be EEL, and let me tell ya, eel freakin'
rocks. It is seriously so rad. At Nelson's, a few days later, he offered
us some goat's milk from his family's goat (like every family here has
animals that live somewhere on the island), and as I tried it, I can
honestly say it was not as good an experience as the eel. The stuff was
THICK and smelled rank, but didn't taste too bad. It still wasn't an
overly pleasant testing, and Elder Stone and I graciously turned down
seconds of it.
Well, that's my week for ya guys, hope you all had a swell one!!
Love ya!
Elder Massey
Tuesday, 17 March 2015
The Hardest Button to Button
**No new pictures this week - internet troubles....hopefully next week we will get the pictures from the island tour!
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Sometimes, agency can be one of the most frustrating things EVER.
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Sometimes, agency can be one of the most frustrating things EVER.
Sitting
in church yesterday, I found myself getting frustrated, becausefor the
6th week in a row, we didn't have any investigators at church, despite
many saying they would come, including Nelson, one of our really
strongly progressing investigators. As I was sitting there, I had the
thought that, I can only choose things for myself, such as deciding to
walk through the door to sit down in Sacrament Meeting, and that as I
choose these things, I'm able to see the hand my Heavenly Father has in
my life, but that I can't choose FOR my investigators to be there. For
this reason, I've learned that, sometimes in our own lives, the toughest
thing for usto do is ACTUALLY to do.
With
that said, this week was definitely a good week. With regards to our two
main investigators, Chano and Milsielita, and Nelson, we continued to
progress with them, but this didn't exist without having roadblocks
along the way. With both of them, we taught them the Law of Chastity
this week, or 'Lei de Castidade' (which is SUPER fun to say in
Portuguese), and each of them had their own cool aspects to them. In our
lesson with Nelson, as we taught him, he told us it would definitely be
difficult, but 'not impossible', to quote him directly. His faith to
follow our Heavenly Father is so incredible. At the end of our lesson
with him, as we asked him whether he would live the Law of Chastity, he
said 'I can't promise anything right now' and paused, and thought for
about a solid 5 seconds, and then said 'y'know what, why not?' and
commited to follow. It was honestly so cool. With the other two,
however, it was a little more difficult. With the Law of Chastity, those
people who are living together who aren't married need to BE married in
order to be baptized, so, this became our focus for the lesson. As we
continued to talk and talk with them about this, over 3 different
visits, I noticed myself getting frustrated with them, and I just wanted
them to 'button this button', to actually DO these things, but I soon
realized, as I talked about at the beginning here, I can't do that for
them. During our 3rd visit, we just kinda stopped and talked about
whether or not they actually believed what we taught was true. At first,
the answer we got was 'Honestly, I don't know', from Chano, and 'Well,
I'm not positive', from Milsielita, and right there, we justturned the
lesson totally around, and rather than us testifying to them, they
basically began to testify to us! Milsielita told us how, as she would
meet with missionaries from different religions, she would dread them
coming over, even saying she would hide from them in her house, but with
us, she can hardly wait for us to come over. Chano told us how, with
all other religions,they come into their home, and they have this
conviction that they have the truth, but TELL them that they are the
true church, and TELL them to join, when with us, we have a conviction
that we have the truth, but the first thing we do is INVITE THEM to find
out if this is true. I thought these were both such incredible
testimonies to what missionary work really is, and what we stand for.
The Spirit testified so strongly and simply then that what we have is
right, and as we walked out of there, they were left with a firm resolve
to really search and find the truth for themselves, it was seriously so
cool. They are incredible people.
As for the
rest of the week, it was definitely a good one. We had President and
Sister Mathews come on Wednesday with the APs, and basically got a
low-down on the Zone Conference we missed a few weeks back, it was boss.
They took us out for lunch and I had like the best tuna I've ever had
in my life. We had really good trainings from both President and Sister
Mathews, President's being about goal setting and Sister Mathews' being
both about the Plan of Salvation and how importnat revelation is for us
every day. When they left, we were pretty pumped toget out and just
WORK, and I guess that's exactly what we did!
A
cool story from this week, as we were passing by sorta where Nelson
lives, and this lady kinda waved us over to come talked to her. She was
just sitting down on the side of the road doing whatever (a lot of
people do that here), and she grabbed the Book of Mormon out of Elder
Stone's hands and was like 'What's this? Tell me what this is!'. It was
sorta strange and random, but we gave her a very basic overview of what
it was, and what we believe, and asked if we could come back and teach
her, to which she responded that we could return the next day. She was
super open to learning more, and even told us she would have more
questions for us! We returned the next day, and she had a small piece of
paper covered in questions, arranging from how many people we believed
would be 'saved', if the virgin Mary stayed a virgin, what our church's
name meant, and a variety of other things, which we all answered, save
the virgin Mary one (that was so darn random). She really liked all of
our answers, and we proceeded to teach her after answering all these
things. As we left, we asked her something like, 'hey, why'd you whistle
us down yesterday on the street?' to which she responded, 'well, I
didn't have that book you guys have, and I want more knowledge'. HOW
FREAKING COOL, hey?? I was so pumped leaving there.
With
our first transfer come and gone, Elder Stone and I got one more
together here, and we're looking forward to keep up with our work. Maio
is seriously a blast.
Hope y'all had a good week! I love ya!!
Elder Massey
Monday, 16 March 2015
Month of May
** It was a busy week last week and posting this letter on the blog just got away from me. Hope you enjoy!
"Gunna make a record in the month of May..."
Well,
it's been more than a literal month of May (because Maio means May in
Portuguese, GET IT??), and this week has been a heck ton of fun.Monday, 2 March 2015
You've Got a Friend in Me!
Okay okay, I know this is a bit of a cheesy song title this week, but just hear me out here
We've
had a fun week this week, as we've had a lot of progression with a few
of our really cool investigators. Like I wrote about last week, we've
taught Chando and his wife, Milsielita, a few times again this week, as
well as a guy named Nelson, who's a 20 year old kid, and we've met with
him a few times as well. Elder Stone and I feel really good about these
investigators, they're really fun people, and we get along with all of
them so well. So, I just wanna write about our experiences with them
this week!
Chando and Milsielita:
We've had 2
other lesson with these guys this week, and we've had cool experiences
both times. Earlier in the week, we went to teach them, with the intent
to talk about the second lesson in Preach my Gospel, but found that they
hadn't kept their commitments by reading in the Book of Mormon, or
prayed sincerely to know of the truth of these things. With this, we
decided that it was more important to discuss the Book of Mormon with
them, so we did that through actually reading the first chapter of first
Nephi with them. This turned out to be the right decision, as this
totally sparked a desire in them to read the Book of Mormon. By the time
we had returned 3 days later, Milsielita had read up to 1 Nephi 8, and
proceeded to give us like a full 5 minute summary of what she had read,
AND what it meant to her. It was so cool! When she finished, I told her
that I was pretty sure she''d memorized every word she'd read! I was
with Elder Martinez for this lesson, as we had gone on divisions that
day, and we taught them then about the Plan of Salvation, with the
invitation to follow this plan through baptism. At first, they weren't
sure as to if it was the right direction for them, as they had their
questions, but we were able to answer these questions, and emphasize to
them that they can know of a truth of these things for themselves. I
took the opportunity to bear my testimony to them of these things, and
just as I was about to close my testimony 'in the name of Jesus
Christ..', Chando interrupted me and shouted something in Creole (I
really don't understand about 80% of what these people say), which I
guess he was saying he wanted to be strong in the Spirit like I was, and
Milsielita was like sitting there hugging herself saying she felt all
warm and happy. It was so freaking darn hecking cool, as I guess it was
kinda the first time I've really seen the Holy Ghost work through me.
They've excepted the invitation to be baptized, when they recieve an
answer of the truthfulness of what we taught. The next night, we popped
by just to invite them to church, and they invited us in, and we stayed
and just chatted with them for like 40 minutes! We didn't teach
anything, but they jsut wanted us to come in and hang out with them! It
was seriously so much fun, even though I understood very little. Chando
speaks a little English, so he was saying stuff to us and it was so darn
funny. The only problem was, they made popcorn for us, and once it was
made, Elder stone and I remembered we were fasting (OOPS), but they were
incredibly nice about it. They said they're going to invited us over
for cachupa sometime soon (ooooooooooh).
Nelson:
Nelson
is this kid we've been teaching like every other day, and he's
seriosuly so cool. He's been reading in the Book of Mormon, he's been
praying and writing down his feelings that he has, he's been living the
Word of Wisdom to EXACTNESS, AND he read the entire Plan of Salvation
pamphlet, and asked us questions about it all! The day we decided to
talk about the Atonement, he started off our lesson by asking us what it
was! It was like seriously so perfect. We've had a couple times this
week where we've just popped by to see how he's doing, and we just chat
with him for a bit. We even hung out with him while they were playing
Recess, the old Disney show, in Portuguese. It was so funny.
It's
so cool to see the impact we have in people's lives, but also that,
first and foremost, we are these people's friends, even their brothers,
and to see the love they have for us is incredible. It is such an
amazing thing, to see the love our Heavenly Father has for these people,
because I know I feel it each and every time I meet with them.
Speaking
of friends, Elder Stone and I have been getting along really well, we
have a lot of fun basically every day. We find different ways to have
fun each day; the best way this past week was through rap battles. On
Sunday, we were really bored, so we decided to rap about random crap.
We've come to be pretty boss rappers if I do say so myself... :)
Also,
this week, before the fast, we decided to eat like kings: we ate
LOBSTER. This lobster, or 'lagosta' (how exotic), cost about $15 bucks a
plate, which sounds like nothing, buuuut we usually spend about
$2.50-4.00 when we eat lunches, so it was EXPENSIVE. Basically 6 lunches
right there. Thank goodness we had the money, otherwise, we'd be
eating a LOT of ramen this week...
Love you all, keep being rad people!
Elder Massey
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